Luke 10:27 And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.
When you don’t love God, there is no way you can repent and, there is no way you can love your neighbour. It is only the love of God that can compel you to love your neighbour.
If you love God with all your heart, soul, mind, might and strength you will remain faithful. Your inability to remain a faithful follower of Christ is the lack of love
The opposite of love is hatred (dislike). Those who hate God and their neighbours are drunkards, fornicators, adulterous, idolatrous, proud persons, liars, false witness, corrupt people, evil people, gossipers, backbiters, slanderers, those who gives and take bribes, hating people, speaking evil of people, those who take pleasure in evil things. In summary they replaced the love of God with worldliness and carnality. The above will not do you any good but HELL FIRE
I urge you to love God, He will fight all your battles, protect you and your family in all your ways. You will become a celebrated person where you were rejected. Your eyes will see the desire of the Lord upon your enemies. And so shall it be. It is well with you